About Me

I am a great believer in emotional intelligence and we are all our own leaders. 

Great leadership is characterised by using emotional intelligence. Emotional Intelligence is maturity and anyone who uses emotional intelligence in conflict resolutions is able to get the results without manipulation. When you know your values and you live them, you can stay calm and collected; you can walk away in a calm way without creating a fuss.  Knowing and doing are two different things.

For example: I know I should not binge but I still do it. 

Emotions trigger us and they lead to our unwanted behaviours. Most of the time, we are not aware of them because it happens so fast and automatic that you cannot intervene because the necessary  awareness is missing. 

When you learn emotional intelligence, you will have greater self-confidence, feel calmer, less stress and anxiety, you feel motivated about yourself and you can motivate others, you improve your communication because you can think clearly. There are so many benefits when we apply emotional intelligence and your cognitive intelligence improves, too. Why? Your energy shifts from emotions to the frontal cortex and more oxygen means that you have clearer thoughts. 

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What Is Self-Love?

Sophisticated Education Lasting Forever – Leaping Over Venomous Engagement

It means that I educate people on self-love and with that how to manifest successfully and powerfully. It is working smart rather than hard. It is being happy first before any other successes and this includes job titles or status. This is a bit to take in. 

We bring our children up to be successful at school. How about bringing our children up with healthy self-esteem because those outside successes will come automatically.

This is working smart.

when you follow your passion, the successes come automatically and I experienced this. I was very passionate about my profession and the successes found me. I was not chasing any of them. However, f you do  not feel worthy of your successes, it can backfire.

So, be prepared to be successful. 

Self-Love is an evolution. An evolution is something new and unknown. We do not know the feeling of self-love. Self-love that lasts and comes from the inside. Self-love is not only buying nice outfits and going to the hairdresser or having your nails done… Yes, it is all part of it but it never lasts. The only true love that will never let you down is self-love. It has got to be healthy. People with an inflated ego also have self-love but it is false self-love. There is still a void inside of them that needs to be filled in order for them to function fully. 

The Inner Child Needs To Be Happy

Emotional traumas come from emotional neglect, abandonment, emotional abuse or verbal abuse and those emotions are stuck in our bodies and those emotions trigger us in certain situations. They are stuck in our nervous system. When you feel triggered, your nervous system gets triggered. 

I use Inner Child Healing as one tool. I use the human design to see what are you not aware of in your subconscious or even deeper and what are your gifts? I was very lucky that I followed my soul and I became a teacher. I always loved what I did until it all changed and my soul became unhappy. Very unhappy. My successes became bigger than me. 

Healthy self-esteem is needed to be successful 360 degrees. Not just the outside successes because they can be taken away from you or as mentioned, they can outgrow the “little you”. When we were born, we had self-esteem and if you feel sad inside or disappointed or depressed, then your soul got clouded and conditioned. Your heart collected painful emotions through certain events that happened. You then form beliefs and those beliefs manifest as your truths. You form your beliefs between the age of 0 and 5/6/7 years. All untrue beliefs need to be eliminated and smashed before anything new can be planted and once that seed is planted, you are able to nurture it with love, affection and compassion coming from you. It is your inner child! Your job is to be patient with yourself. 

I work with the subconscious/unconscious mind, however, I have other tools available to help clients and businesses to perform to an elevated level. It is about modifying our thoughts and rewiring our neuronal connections.  I teach emotional intelligence in business and life and what it means to become your own leader with healthy emotions. Anyone can give instructions but not everybody can lead. 

So many relationships break down, the dating world seems completely out of sync and no one really knows anymore what to do. Many will have given up because of many disheartened experiences. This is called Philophobia. The fear to love again. Sadly, this does exist but like any fear, it is a conditioning. Being fearful of getting hurt again and the ego stands in the way but when you self-reflect, you can identify where some things might have gone wrong and how you contributed to the breakup because “it takes two to tango”. 

It is looking at the SELF and understanding the SELF. The unconscious and the unconscious programming needs to be discovered and rectified because you attract according to who you are and not what you want. And the unconscious conditioning can also be found in the human design. However, the human design is more about how you should operate to get the best out of life. 

I have been on a spiritual journey myself and I know how painful such discoveries can be. You will learn how to see YOUR reality as a mirror of yourself. If you do not like something, you can change it but first we need to find out what you need to change. Oftentimes, it is self-sabotage. 

I teach how to be a successful manifestor. How to change your identity to become this person who you aspire to be in your reality.

My own life experiences and adversities made this new professional career of mine possible and I am very grateful for all life experiences because without them, I would never be the person I have become after my own reflective journey. I am very proud to say that I have escaped the emotional prisons I have kept myself in for more than 5 decades. I would have never put myself together to see the clear picture of myself.

How did I do this all?

 Along my journey I met some coaches, mentors, teachers, therapists. Every single one of them contributed something to the understanding of myself but most of all, I did it myself. This requires brutal honesty and a lot of hours of education. Therapy is learning about the SELF. There is a stigma attached to therapy that there is something wrong with you. There is nothing wrong with you. Sometimes we just get out of alignment.  Some calibration is needed.  A good therapist will always put you in the centre, and a good therapist will never judge you because they have been through so many dark times themselves that they are certainly not scared of the client’s darkness.

A good coach, mentor, teacher will help you to understand your own past and past mistakes, but they will always show love and compassion for you. They will always encourage you and you will always feel positive and uplifted after each session.

“We are not meant to run away from our own shadow, nor are we meant to be fearful of our own shadow. We are meant to look at it for our own healing.” (ElevatEd Minds -Transform2Perform)